All I can say is..
Holy shit, this video got me so emotional.
I think I’m going to watch this every day. Shout out to Preston Smiles on YouTube for sharing these powerful messages, this one almost brought me to tears.
In order to overcome fear we need to start changing the way we perceive it.
Did you know that whatever you fear the most is the key to your personal freedom? I’m saying that if you conquer whatever it is you most fear you will be free.
A powerful way to change the way you perceive fear is to stop getting nervous when you think about your fears. Instead, get excited. Feel thrilled by the idea of running straight in to it and giving it your best shot at overcoming it.
Preston would say “transmute” the fear from negative to positive. Change it from worry to creative energy. Feed off of it!
Another great way to overcome our fears is to stop holding everything in! Seriously, this is so destructive. We need to be able to have someone we can talk about our fears with, someone who can see it from a different perspective, and most importantly, stop isolating it and get it off our chest! Having someone know what you’re going through is going to take away the loneliness and make you realize that you aren’t in this alone.
If you have anxieties you should tell people what you are experiencing instead of holding it in. Do that and tell me you don’t feel better afterwards. It comes down to being open. If you can be open with people, they are going to love and accept you for your authenticity.
The vast majority of us were taught to believe that we are weak if we have fears, well, that just isn’t true. We’re weak if we’re too scared to talk about the fears. We’re weak if we’re too self-conscious to be ourself.
Practice being vulnerable. This is the key to your personal freedom.
Start being yourself 100%. Tell people exactly how you feel, don’t beat around the bush, just do it.
Scared about talking to a girl?
That’s okay. Talk to her anyways and tell her how you feel. She is going to appreciate your honesty and think you’re more of a man than the guy who didn’t even try, and even worse, the guy who put on a front.
You being yourself isn’t just going to help you, it’s going to help the people around you. By being yourself you allow others to be themselves.
Please, start putting yourself out there.
The ones who matter won’t mind. The ones who mind don’t matter.
Whatever you are scared of doing is exactly what you need to be doing. Your life is going to turn so dreamlike and come together so quickly once you start doing this.
I know I’m not your teacher, but if I was to give you some homework, this would be it:
Practice vulnerability. Start expressing yourself 100%. Be authentic. If you feel like you’re having a hard time being yourself, let the person you’re talking with know that. You’re going to feel amazing and you’re going to connect deeply with those people you’re being real with.
So, those are my two essential tips for overcoming fear.
- Start thinking about it as exciting, not scary.
- Practice the power of vulnerability.
There you have it guys. My buddy over at Tampa Home Security wouldn’t appreciate this post too much because he relies on fear to make his sales. Hahahaha just kidding Chet! If any of you are in South Florida and are worried about someone breaking in to your property, check him out at tampasecuritysystems.org. 🙂
Will be back with some fresh content soon.
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